Sexual attraction is a must in every couple. You just can’t have a relationship with someone if there is no sexual attraction between the two of you. If things are going downhill for some reason, there are some things you can do to bring back the heat in the bedroom. In this article, we decided to tell what you can do to sexually attract your partner so you can improve your relationship. Here they are:
- Don’t forget important dates
Regardless whether you are a man or a woman, remembering important dates or landmarks of your relationship is a must. For women, there is nothing more attractive on a man that the fact that he remembers anniversaries and small things related to their relationship. For men, having a woman remember football dates or something similar is always a turn-on. These things also bring you two together and make your relationship much stronger.
- Lingerie and confidence
Everybody knows that a sexy lingerie can heat things up in the bedroom. What most women do not realize is that the lingerie itself does not matter if you are not comfortable in your body or if your self-confidence is not as strong as it should be when wearing it. Men like a woman who is confident and comfortable in her own skin and although the lingerie is a huge turn on, the attitude is what matters most. Think about it: if he would not like your body, you would not be in this position. So get out there and be the best!
- Runaway for the weekend
Routine and a mundane life often lead to many conflicts within a relationship. It can lead to a tense atmosphere and conflicts and you want to avoid all that. You can do it by running away with your partner somewhere away from all the chaos of the city, where you can enjoy each other. You don’t have to turn this into an actual holiday that lasts a week. Surprise your partner with a weekend getaway on a lake or fly together towards a new city. This will improve your sex life and your relationship overall because you will be able to recharge your batteries away from the chaos of the city.
- Be open minded
Sex is no longer a taboo as it used to be in the past and that means that in order to keep your partner happy sexually, you have to be open-minded to a lot of things. There are entire industries developed on this idea of helping you try new things. Don’t freak out when you learn about something new you’ve never done before. On the contrary, research new things to try and surprise your partner with what you learned. It will definitely improve your sex life and with it, your relationship as a whole. A healthy sex life often leads to an overall improvement in your relationship.
- Be supportive of each other
After making love to your partner, tell him or her how much you enjoyed it. For women, stroke his ego and tell him how good he made you feel. For men, tell your wife or girlfriend how much you love her. Caress, kiss, touch. Show your partner how much you care about him or her and about how important he or she is to you. All of these make your relationship stronger and make both of you more attracted to one another.
- Wear red
Red is known to be the color of passion and love and a recent study performed by the University of Rochester shows that men find themselves to be more attracted to women wearing red dresses or some type of red clothing. It may be something biological or it may not, but the bottom line is, in order to sexually attract your partner, try to find either lingerie or skirts or dresses that are red. This will surely make your hubby go crazy, especially if you follow our advice above and you let your confidence out.
There are so many things you can do to sexually attract your partner and most of the time, it comes down to how well you know them. However, if you add the advice here to what you already know, you will surely give them a pleasant surprise!